GRAMMAR DETAIL
~合う
Attaches to a verb stem to show that two or more participants perform the same action toward one another or together.
Examples
二人は意見を出し合って計画を決めた。
The two of them shared their ideas and decided on a plan.
Words used
困ったときは、家族で助け合うことが大切です。
It is important for family members to help one another when problems arise.
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学生たちは互いの作文を読み合った。
The students read one another's compositions.
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Study notes
1. Origins, structure, and basic meaning
- Structure: Add
合う(あう)to a verb's stem beforeますto express reciprocal or joint action. - Basic usage:
学生たちは互いの作文を読み合った。means that the students read one another's compositions.
2. Common pitfalls and similar expressions
- One-way and reciprocal action
友達を助けるdescribes helping a friend in one direction, while友達と助け合うdescribes helping each other. The particle changes to match the reciprocal relationship.
- Connection and conjugation
- In
読む→読み合う→読み合った, the first verb stays in its connecting stem form and合うis conjugated. Do not connect it as読んで合う.
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